{"id":453941,"date":"2025-06-19T20:43:18","date_gmt":"2025-06-19T20:43:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/?p=453941"},"modified":"2025-06-20T00:14:43","modified_gmt":"2025-06-20T00:14:43","slug":"loss-of-identity-matildas-great-exposes-disturbing-truth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/?p=453941","title":{"rendered":"&#039;Loss of identity&#039;: Matildas great exposes disturbing truth"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Distressing stories of retired Australian athletes grappling with issues such as identity crises and &quot;complex&quot; mental health problems have led to the Australian Institute of Sport launching a peer support network at a time when the need for one has never been greater.<\/p>\n<p>In a year rocked by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nine.com.au\/sport\/afl\/news-2025-adam-selwood-death-twin-brother-troy-joel-family-statement-20250517-p5m00n.html\" title=\"the deaths of twin brothers Troy and Adam Selwood by suicide three months apart\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">the deaths of twin brothers Troy and Adam Selwood by suicide three months apart<\/a>, Wide World of Sports can reveal the Australian Institute of Sport (AIS) has set up a retired athlete peer support network to make life after sport easier to navigate.<\/p>\n<p>The launch of the network\ufeff wasn&#x27;t prompted by the Selwood tragedies \u2014 a pilot program was run last year and it was clear then that a network of this kind was critical \u2014 but the heart-wrenching series of events that followed reaffirmed to key people at the AIS just how difficult life after sport can be.<\/p>\n<p><strong>READ MORE:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nine.com.au\/sport\/nrl\/state-of-origin\/news-2025-under-19s-fight-melee-video-jordan-uta-tackle-nsw-blues-queensland-maroons-brad-fittler-comments-20250619-p5m8x5.html\"><strong>Origin clash &#x27;boils over&#x27; as wild shot sparks all-in melee<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>READ MORE:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nine.com.au\/sport\/nrl\/news-2025-spencer-leniu-ezra-mam-game-two-embrace-racism-saga-interview-20250619-p5m8wu.html\"><strong>&#x27;In the past&#x27;: Leniu and Mam end feud with Origin embrace<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><strong>READ MORE:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nine.com.au\/sport\/nrl\/state-of-origin\/news-2025-jarome-luai-wests-tigers-backing-up-state-of-origin-nsw-blues-benji-marshall-press-conference-20250619-p5m8w3.html\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" title=\"\"><strong>&#x27;We flogged him&#x27;: Benji &#x27;felt sorry&#x27; for Luai when NSW called<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Among those who took part in the pilot program was <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nine.com.au\/topic\/matildas-jfe\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" title=\"Matildas\">Matildas<\/a> great Elise Kellond-Knight, who called time on her stellar career last October.\ufeff<\/p>\n<p>&quot;It&#x27;s heartbreaking,&quot; Kellond-Knight said of the Selwood tragedies in an interview with Wide World of Sports.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;It&#x27;s something you just don&#x27;t fathom is possible, and you would hope that they had every possible piece of support around them before what eventuated.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;It shows you how hard it is for athletes to adjust to a new way of life and to basically give up one of their nearest, dearest things to them. It does show you the struggles that we all go through.&quot;<\/p>\n<p><img data-id=\"c93e8336-b33b-4b49-8917-230c57a09acb\" src=\"https:\/\/prod.static9.net.au\/fs\/c93e8336-b33b-4b49-8917-230c57a09acb\" alt=\"Troy Selwood (left) and twin brother Adam, who died by suicide three months apart.\" data-width=\"1258\" data-height=\"707\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Kellond-Knight\ufeff laid bare a troubling reality.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;I think it would be very rare if an athlete said to you it was easy transitioning into retirement,&quot; she said.<\/p>\n<p>The AIS has an athlete advisory committee consisting of both currently competing and retired athletes, including Olympic pole vault gold medallist <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nine.com.au\/person\/nina-kennedy-6glp\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" title=\"Nina Kennedy\">Nina Kennedy<\/a>, former world No.1 surfer <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nine.com.au\/person\/sally-fitzgibbons-26ay\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" title=\"Sally Fitzgibbons\">Sally Fitzgibbons<\/a> and wheelchair racing legend Kurt Fearnley.<\/p>\n<p>The committee raised with key people at the AIS a strongly held belief that more needed to be done to help retired athletes.<\/p>\n<p>The retired athlete peer support network was soon in the works.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;One of the big things every retired athlete I&#x27;ve ever spoken to has referred to is change of identity,&quot; Matti Clements, the executive general manager of AIS performance, told Wide World of Sports.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;Some of them will refer it as a loss of an identity.<\/p>\n<p><img data-id=\"863a3845-e0eb-4150-a753-fd1b6d744bd0\" src=\"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/863a3845-e0eb-4150-a753-fd1b6d744bd0-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"Elise Kellond-Knight in action for the Matildas at the Rio 2016 Olympics.\" data-width=\"3384\" data-height=\"2448\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&quot;Others will refer to it as, &#x27;I was an athlete, and now I&#x27;m moving to the next stage of my career&#x27;, but others will absolutely talk about and refer to what&#x27;s next as, &#x27;I was an athlete, it was my whole sense of self, and now I don&#x27;t know who I am&#x27;.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;So, identity&#x27;s one of the central drivers in this peer support program.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;Some of the other things that can come out of an individual&#x27;s experience when they&#x27;re transitioning out of elite sport are quite complex mental health issues.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;But they can also be family issues and social issues &#8230; In many cases, you have to rebuild some of those relationships, or in some cases, start new relationships, because your whole sense of social interaction has been with the sport you&#x27;ve been involved in, and now you&#x27;re no longer so intimately engaged in that sport. And creating new friendships is really tough, as we all know.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>In Kellond-Knight&#x27;s experience, identity hasn&#x27;t been a problem in the eight months she&#x27;s been retired.<\/p>\n<p>Granted, the dual Olympian is now having a kick in the Victorian\ufeff Premier League, is now the deputy chair of Professional Footballers Australia, and has remained an expert football commentator, a role she&#x27;s held for multiple years.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;So I&#x27;ve still got this really healthy relationship with Elise the footballer,&quot; Kellond-Knight said.<\/p>\n<p><img data-id=\"60de1685-fdfc-4ec6-b5e9-55f1107cc44b\" src=\"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/60de1685-fdfc-4ec6-b5e9-55f1107cc44b-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"Matti Clements, executive general manager AIS performance.\" data-width=\"5280\" data-height=\"3519\" \/><\/p>\n<p>However, no longer having a thoroughly structured high-performance program to follow \u2014 a constant in her life throughout her 17 years in top-flight football \u2014 proved problematic.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;Maybe my biggest challenge was around physicality,&quot; said Kellond-Knight, who works full-time as a project management officer consultant.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;A really good talking point that came out of the network group [in the pilot program] was the fact that athletes don&#x27;t get detrained, and I found that quite hard to deal with, and I wasn&#x27;t quite sure what I was going through at the time because I just wasn&#x27;t aware of it.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;I usually wake up ready to work physically, and you&#x27;re obviously very fit and active, and I just describe it as being like a kid on ADHD \u2014 you&#x27;re wired, you need to go out, you need to expend energy.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;When you move into a different career, you don&#x27;t necessarily get the opportunity to do that. So I had to adapt my lifestyle to cater to that.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;When there&#x27;s ways that I can get some sort of activity in, I definitely do that, because I&#x27;ve got a functioning human when I have exercise.&quot;<\/p>\n<p><img data-id=\"9d1827eb-e8b8-438e-8ba5-4c05bf7ae9bf\" src=\"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/9d1827eb-e8b8-438e-8ba5-4c05bf7ae9bf\" alt=\"Matildas players.\" data-width=\"1705\" data-height=\"966\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Beginning in July, virtual peer support sessions\ufeff run by the retired athletes involved will be held in six-week blocks.<\/p>\n<p>In addition to those sessions, in-person events for retired athletes will be held in each of the capital cities.\ufeff<\/p>\n<p>The AIS wants anyone who&#x27;s represented Australia or competed at the highest level\ufeff of their sport domestically, including former NRL and AFL players, to get in contact if they&#x27;re struggling with life in retirement.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;It&#x27;s absolutely about connecting you to a group of people that you may not have been connected with &#8230; if it wasn&#x27;t for this program,&quot; Clements said.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;So there&#x27;s a new group of potential friends there, but also, people that have gone through a lived experience. And we know that people talking, lived experience to lived experience, is a really important way of developing your own skills, understanding what&#x27;s going to work for you, and navigating through the next stage of life.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Last week&#x27;s Australian swimming trials, held in Adelaide, shone a light on the mental struggles facing many athletes competing currently.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nine.com.au\/person\/mollie-o-callaghan-6g5y\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" title=\"Mollie O&#x27;Callaghan\">Mollie O&#x27;Callaghan<\/a>, who triumphed in the 200m freestyle at the Paris 2024 Olympics, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nine.com.au\/sport\/swimming\/australian-trials-2025-mollie-o-callaghan-nine-interview-200m-freestyle-results-time-lani-pallister-20250611-p5m6r9.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" title=\"revealed in an emotional interview on Nine\">revealed in an emotional interview on Nine<\/a> that she&#x27;d been struggling to cope with defending her status as an Olympic gold medallist.<\/p>\n<p><img data-video-id=\"6374124259112\" src=\"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/pickerimage-24.jpg\" alt=\"O&#x27;Callaghan breaks down in TV interview\" data-vms-id=\"ref:cmbrsfrqt00280hnxc3vy41id\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Kellond-Knight had \ufeffsage advice for any athlete competing currently.<strong>\ufeff<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&quot;Maintain that balanced lifestyle,&quot; the 34-year-old said.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;You&#x27;re obviously going to have ebbs and flows in your career, and you&#x27;ll have down time in your career.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;When you&#x27;re going into an Olympics or an Olympic trials, you need to be laser-focused, 100 per cent.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;But in moments where you do have time and capacity to start to broaden your horizons a little bit, try to get that balance into your life, because your athletic career does not last forever.&quot;<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you or anyone you know needs immediate support, contact Lifeline on 13 11 14 or via<\/strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/lifeline.org.au\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>lifeline.org.au<\/strong><\/a><strong>. 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