{"id":391852,"date":"2024-05-08T07:11:04","date_gmt":"2024-05-08T07:11:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/?p=391852"},"modified":"2024-05-08T08:04:24","modified_gmt":"2024-05-08T08:04:24","slug":"gay-afl-players-secret-relationship-raises-sad-question","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/?p=391852","title":{"rendered":"Gay AFL player&#039;s secret relationship raises &#039;sad&#039; question"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wwos.nine.com.au\/carlton-blues\" title=\"Carlton\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Carlton<\/a> legend <a href=\"https:\/\/wwos.nine.com.au\/afl\/brendan-fevola\" title=\"Brendan Fevola\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Brendan Fevola<\/a> has declared he is &quot;sad&quot; at the fact that no gay <a href=\"https:\/\/wwos.nine.com.au\/afl\" title=\"AFL\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">AFL<\/a> players have felt safe enough to come out and express their sexual identity after podcaster Scott O&#x27;Halloran revealed he previously had a years-long relationship with an AFL player.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking on Fevola&#x27;s Melbourne radio show, The Fox&#x27;s <em>Fifi, Fev and Nick for Breakfast<\/em>, O&#x27;Halloran said he had a relationship with a now retired player for &quot;about \ufeff3-4 years&quot;, adding that he would &quot;never ever share their identity&quot;.<\/p>\n<p>He said he decided to go public with that information after Port Adelaide player <a href=\"https:\/\/wwos.nine.com.au\/afl\/news-2024-port-adelaide-power-jeremy-finlayson-interview-shameful-regret-homophobic-slur-three-match-ban-completed\/cc79aa78-9370-44ff-bc26-edacb14ebd30\" title=\"Jeremy Finlayson recently used a homophobic slur\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Jeremy Finlayson recently used a homophobic slur<\/a> against an opponent and was suspended by the AFL.<\/p>\n<p><strong>READ MORE:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/wwos.nine.com.au\/nrl\/news-2024-wayne-bennett-dolphins-coach-south-sydney-rabbitohs-players-signing-darren-lockyer-exclusive\/7d3b74d4-4c4c-4156-941f-0e72e570a0fd\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>Lockyer allays fears over Bennett poaching raid<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>READ MORE:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/wwos.nine.com.au\/football\/uefa-champions-league-news-2024-paris-saint-germain-vs-borussia-dortmund-kylian-mbappe-teams-future\/7a58b6a3-1c2f-489e-bdcd-a1c9643f0c88\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>&#x27;Galacticos&#x27; graveyard: Wasted billions in grand flop<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p><strong>READ MORE:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/wwos.nine.com.au\/cricket\/news-2024-michael-slater-oval-wagga-wagga-covered-council-revoked\/1f6783e3-618e-409d-a64f-aef58154559c\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>Slater wiped from history in home town after charges<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><img data-id=\"926f7f9a-babf-4e8a-b2fd-c7f23ffcadbf\" src=\"https:\/\/prod.static9.net.au\/fs\/926f7f9a-babf-4e8a-b2fd-c7f23ffcadbf\" alt=\"Jeremy Finlayson apologises for using a homophobic slur. \" data-width=\"1396\" data-height=\"785\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&quot;No one&#x27;s job is to ever &#x27;out&#x27; a person \u2013 so that&#x27;s not my goal in this. But when I saw and heard some homophobia, which happens a lot in the AFL, I just got very disappointed and very vocal about the AFL not supporting its code, its players, (and) its employees. So, I&#x27;ve decided to share the story about the relationship on today&#x27;s podcast,&quot; O&#x27;Halloran said.<\/p>\n<p>O&#x27;Halloran&#x27;s experience prompted Fevloa to question why there has never been a V\/AFL player come out in the game&#x27;s history, with the former star goal-kicker fearing that the amount of homophobia in the game could make them feel unsafe if they were to reveal their identity.<\/p>\n<p>The former Blue\ufeff wonders why the AFL has always been such an unsafe space for men to express themselves, fearing that the game could never see any improvement to the way it is now, compared to the changes seen across other codes.<\/p>\n<p>Fevola, who played 204-games for Carlton and Brisbane between 1999-2010, \ufeffis confident that he played with a gay footballer at some stage in his career.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;Obviously, I played AFL. I would have played with someone who was gay, probably,&quot; Fevola said.<em>Fifi, Fev &amp; Nick<\/em> on Wednesday.<\/p>\n<p><img data-id=\"9dda5895-4156-4f1b-960e-f5224056c65d\" src=\"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/9dda5895-4156-4f1b-960e-f5224056c65d-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"Fevola was traded by the Blues at the end of 2009.\" data-width=\"3000\" data-height=\"2010\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&quot;It doesn&#x27;t bother me, each to their own. Obviously, there is gay footballers out there, but no footballer in our code has ever come forward to say they are gay.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Carlton&#x27;s seven-time leading goalkicker believes that the AFL club environment plays a role in the fact that gay players hide in the shadows.<\/p>\n<p>He wondered aloud why other sports, which are often perceived to be played in hyper masculine environments have had players going public with their sexuality, while the AFL hasn&#x27;t yet broken the taboo.\ufeff<\/p>\n<p>&quot;It&#x27;s happened in other sports. In soccer, in NRL\u2026 why do you think that a player can&#x27;t come out and say they are gay?,&quot; Fevola asked.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;It&#x27;s so sad.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Back in November of 2022, Melbourne United basketball player <a href=\"https:\/\/wwos.nine.com.au\/basketball\/isaac-humphries-comes-out-first-openly-gay-nbl-player\/d1a81abf-eb43-4fc3-9907-4c087bc7a3b0\" title=\"Isaac Humphries came out to his teammates\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Isaac Humphries came out to his teammates<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>He became the <a href=\"https:\/\/wwos.nine.com.au\/basketball\/nbl\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"NBL\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">NBL<\/a>&#x27;s first openly gay player.<\/p>\n<p>Fevola\ufeff lauded the way Humphries club supported him after the announcement.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;I remember about two years ago (Isaac) Humphries, who played for Melbourne United \u2013 a basketballer \u2013 he came out to his teammates and they filmed it and it was one of the most powerful speeches,&quot; Fevola said.<\/p>\n<p><img data-id=\"e17ca6d2-c093-4b9c-9d1d-128053bfa0cf\" src=\"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/e17ca6d2-c093-4b9c-9d1d-128053bfa0cf\" alt=\"Isaac Humphries shares an embrace with Melbourne United coach Dean Vickerman\" data-width=\"1396\" data-height=\"785\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&quot;All the players got around him.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>But Fevola declared that the AFL isn&#x27;t a safe enough space in this day and age, for a player to feel the same support as Humphries did when he came out.\ufeff<\/p>\n<p>&quot;You&#x27;d think if a footballer saw that, they&#x27;d take that and think, &quot;maybe that could happen to me?&quot; \u2026 but you don&#x27;t think that the footy world would accept that,&quot; Fevola said.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>Carlton legend Brendan Fevola has declared he is &quot;sad&quot; at the fact that no gay AFL players have felt safe enough to come out and <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/?p=391852\" title=\"Gay AFL player&#039;s secret relationship raises &#039;sad&#039; question\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":382822,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/391852"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=391852"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/391852\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":391856,"href":"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/391852\/revisions\/391856"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/382822"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=391852"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=391852"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sportinfo.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=391852"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}